Tell them your Story
FAMILY HISTORY QUESTIONS TO GET YOU STARTED
FAMILY HISTORY QUESTIONS
- What were your maternal grandparents' names and dates of birth? Where were they born?
- What were your paternal grandparents' names and dates of birth? Where were they born?
- What kind of work did your grandparents do?
- Where did your maternal grandparents live?
- Where did your paternal grandparents live?
- Do you have special memories of your grandparents?
- What food did you have when you visited?
- Did you do any special activities?
- Are you named after one of them? And if so, why?
- If they died before you knew them, how are they remembered?
- Childhood - School and Home
- Did you go to school or were you home schooled?
- How did you get to school?
- Did your school have a uniform?
- Who was your favourite/most influential teacher? Why?
- Who was your least favourite teacher? Why?
- What were your favourite subjects? Your least favourite?
- Were you good at anything in particular at school or home?
- What were the most important skills that you learned at home?
- What kind of clothing did you wear? Was it homemade?
- Did you have a special occasion dress or outfit?
Special Occasions
- What was your favourite holiday or special occasion?
- How were birthdays celebrated in your family?
- What’s a special memory from a birthday, Christmas or special occasion?
- Was your family religious? What place of worship did you attend?
- How did you celebrate special holidays? Did you give gifts, decorate, dress up, go to church or worship?
- Your teenage years
- How many years of school did you attend?
- Did you do an apprenticeship, go to TAFE, college or university? Where, when? What did you study?
- What were your goals, hopes, and dreams as a young adult?
- What was your first job? How old were you?
- Did you have more than one job? Which was the best? Why? What were the people you worked with like?
Older years
- What was/is your occupation/trade? Have you had multiple professions over the years?
- What tasks did your work involve? Did you enjoy the work?
- If you could have chosen another profession, what would it have been?
- Did you ever get married?
- When, where, and how did you meet your spouse?
- How did you get engaged?
- What was your wedding like? What did you wear, what food was served, where was it held?
- Who were your bridesmaids/best man?
- Did you go on a trip or honeymoon after the wedding? Where to?
- If you chose not to marry, what was the reason?
- About your partner/spouse
- What is your spouse’s full name? Their siblings and parents?
- What is your spouse's occupation? Interests?
- Can you describe a little about your spouse’s personality?
- What do you love the most about your spouse?
- What was your first home together like? Where was it? Did you rent it, buy it?
- What would you say is the key to a successful marriage?
- Do you have any children? How many?
- What are the names and birth dates of your children? The names of their spouses?
- Do you remember what it was like finding out you would soon be a parent?
- What were your children’s births like? At the hospital, at home? Who was there?
- What city or county were each of your children born in?
- Where did you live when your kids were growing up?
- Did you move around much? Why did you move and to where?
- What was your home(s) like when your children were young? Did you own or rent?
- What special memories do you have of your children’s baby or preschool years?
- What was your favourite way to spend time with your kids?
- What was the most difficult part of raising kids? The best part?
- What hobbies did you have when you weren’t working or caring for children?
- What kind of music did you like to listen to?
- What kind of books/magazines did you like to read?
Travel and World Events
- How many nationalities/passports do you have?
- How many places have you lived? Travelled to?
- Which was your favourite?
- Which did you dislike the most? Why?
- What major world events have happened in your lifetime? Did any have a big effect on you?
- Which personal events in your life would you say had the greatest impact on you?
- What’s the best advice you can give your great-grandchildren, your great-great-grandchildren?
- What do you want people to remember the most about you?